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		By: AF		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Oct 2010 03:54:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[For me, the line breaks weren’t working and I’m unable to respond directly to other comments, but maybe it’s my browser that’s at fault!I will add that I think Elena’s perception of the relationship as a little bit foreign is intentional on the author’s part, because it shows the remnants of the origins of the marriage: political duty, a product of a system that exploits the heir-bearing capabilities of women.  It gets us into the mindset of Westeros more quickly.

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What is funny is how in this chapter, Cat and eventually Ned think that rejecting the king’s offer is a sign of disloyalty, whereas in the next Bran chapter we learn that Cersei thinks that accepting is suspicious. Makes me wonder if Martin was in a rush to get the plot rolling, and to be honest I always found this chapter really odd, almost hasty. Sorry in advance for any further HTML issues!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For me, the line breaks weren’t working and I’m unable to respond directly to other comments, but maybe it’s my browser that’s at fault!I will add that I think Elena’s perception of the relationship as a little bit foreign is intentional on the author’s part, because it shows the remnants of the origins of the marriage: political duty, a product of a system that exploits the heir-bearing capabilities of women.  It gets us into the mindset of Westeros more quickly.</p>
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<p>What is funny is how in this chapter, Cat and eventually Ned think that rejecting the king’s offer is a sign of disloyalty, whereas in the next Bran chapter we learn that Cersei thinks that accepting is suspicious. Makes me wonder if Martin was in a rush to get the plot rolling, and to be honest I always found this chapter really odd, almost hasty. Sorry in advance for any further HTML issues!</p>
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		By: Jay Tomio		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Oct 2010 03:31:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Mike, got it thanks.

AF – definitely like the Luwin/Cate prodding, it fits entirely especially with Ned’s thoughts on Brandon (my Elia/kids example in term of Catelyn was taking the “sinister” track or angle that this chapter confronted me with for the first time). I think Martin successfully debunks any such thoughts if we as readers respect Ned, because he clearly gives Luwin respect when he later tells him to essentially be Catelyn’s right hand and that he trusts him in all things

I do want to be clear: I’m firmly in the Catelyn is doing what I’d do camp. Under no circumstances would you turn this opportunity down. Some aspects about her may pop up here as unlikable (or simply, not optimal), they do not change what “side’ I’d be on, and that would be true even if her sister was not in play.

I must say I’m not understanding the page break issues (I just press “enter”!). If you want use HTML code, there is an html button on the menu bar. Can someone tell me what’s not working for them? Thanks! I’m going to edit and fix others, and sorry for any inconvenience.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mike, got it thanks.</p>
<p>AF – definitely like the Luwin/Cate prodding, it fits entirely especially with Ned’s thoughts on Brandon (my Elia/kids example in term of Catelyn was taking the “sinister” track or angle that this chapter confronted me with for the first time). I think Martin successfully debunks any such thoughts if we as readers respect Ned, because he clearly gives Luwin respect when he later tells him to essentially be Catelyn’s right hand and that he trusts him in all things</p>
<p>I do want to be clear: I’m firmly in the Catelyn is doing what I’d do camp. Under no circumstances would you turn this opportunity down. Some aspects about her may pop up here as unlikable (or simply, not optimal), they do not change what “side’ I’d be on, and that would be true even if her sister was not in play.</p>
<p>I must say I’m not understanding the page break issues (I just press “enter”!). If you want use HTML code, there is an html button on the menu bar. Can someone tell me what’s not working for them? Thanks! I’m going to edit and fix others, and sorry for any inconvenience.</p>
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		By: AF		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Oct 2010 02:55:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Submitted on 2010/09/01 at 10:55 pm

Hrmm, I don’t think Cat is ruthless when it comes to games of power.

***SPOILERS***

Compare her to Cersei or Littlefinger later on, she doesn’t have or set people up to be murdered, she doesn’t really care much about Robb’s crown, she just wants her family alive. But marrying off your kids well is normal and not a particular sign of ruthlessness, even Lord Rickard Stark did that. As for not wanting Jon to usurp Robb’s rights, she’s protecting what is due to hers, not taking what belongs to someone else. That’s a pretty clear distinction between her and other game players.

Sorry for not responding directly, I’m having some problems with the comment system!
Hrmm, I don&#039;t think Cat is ruthless when it comes to games of power. &lt;strong&gt;***SPOILERS***&lt;/strong&gt; Compare her to Cersei or Littlefinger later on, she doesn&#039;t have or set people up to be murdered, she doesn&#039;t really care much about Robb&#039;s crown, she just wants her family alive. But marrying off your kids well is normal and not a particular sign of ruthlessness, even Lord Rickard Stark did that. As for not wanting Jon to usurp Robb&#039;s rights, she&#039;s protecting what is due to hers, not taking what belongs to someone else. That&#039;s a pretty clear distinction between her and other game players. Sorry for not responding directly, I&#039;m having some problems with the comment system!
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Submitted on 2010/09/01 at 10:55 pm</p>
<p>Hrmm, I don’t think Cat is ruthless when it comes to games of power.</p>
<p>***SPOILERS***</p>
<p>Compare her to Cersei or Littlefinger later on, she doesn’t have or set people up to be murdered, she doesn’t really care much about Robb’s crown, she just wants her family alive. But marrying off your kids well is normal and not a particular sign of ruthlessness, even Lord Rickard Stark did that. As for not wanting Jon to usurp Robb’s rights, she’s protecting what is due to hers, not taking what belongs to someone else. That’s a pretty clear distinction between her and other game players.</p>
<p>Sorry for not responding directly, I’m having some problems with the comment system!<br />
Hrmm, I don&#8217;t think Cat is ruthless when it comes to games of power. <strong>***SPOILERS***</strong> Compare her to Cersei or Littlefinger later on, she doesn&#8217;t have or set people up to be murdered, she doesn&#8217;t really care much about Robb&#8217;s crown, she just wants her family alive. But marrying off your kids well is normal and not a particular sign of ruthlessness, even Lord Rickard Stark did that. As for not wanting Jon to usurp Robb&#8217;s rights, she&#8217;s protecting what is due to hers, not taking what belongs to someone else. That&#8217;s a pretty clear distinction between her and other game players. Sorry for not responding directly, I&#8217;m having some problems with the comment system!<br />
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Oct 2010 02:40:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It’s more than that, Cat wants to ensure that Winterfell is safe for Robb, and Jon is just one more obstacle in that regard.  It’s not just that she’s unaffectionate, she’s ruthless when it comes to games of power, which ironically the lowborn suffer the most when those games are played.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It’s more than that, Cat wants to ensure that Winterfell is safe for Robb, and Jon is just one more obstacle in that regard.  It’s not just that she’s unaffectionate, she’s ruthless when it comes to games of power, which ironically the lowborn suffer the most when those games are played.</p>
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		By: AF		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Oct 2010 02:29:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Oh and Jay, I think “He would do no kindness leaving him here” just means that Cat would not be affectionate or attentive toward Jon, and so if Ned is not there no one would be around in Winterfell to parent him.  She’s saying “I’m not going to take care of him, don’t expect me to”.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh and Jay, I think “He would do no kindness leaving him here” just means that Cat would not be affectionate or attentive toward Jon, and so if Ned is not there no one would be around in Winterfell to parent him.  She’s saying “I’m not going to take care of him, don’t expect me to”.</p>
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		By: Mike		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mike]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Oct 2010 02:14:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The first paragraph starts with, “That said, while understanding her motivation”.  And a couple paragraphs later there is one that starts with, “Going back to what I said above, while understanding her motivation”.  After the beginning words, they’re almost identical.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The first paragraph starts with, “That said, while understanding her motivation”.  And a couple paragraphs later there is one that starts with, “Going back to what I said above, while understanding her motivation”.  After the beginning words, they’re almost identical.</p>
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		By: Jay Tomio		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Oct 2010 01:52:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I agree with the above, it never struck me to consider Catelyn’s honesty in regards to the message–that was  good call by Elena. As noted above, I do agree Matt, in this – and for me most of the occasions – I find Catelyn’s actions and convictions to be perfectly justifiable given the setting, if not optimal to our own ideas of “grace”. Hell, we know what Cersei does and it’s apparently public knowledge.

Man, I can’t find the duplicate paragraph. Usually if I do that, what’s happening is my latest save isn’t posting (having a ‘fresher’ autosave–which is annoying and has happened more than once). This was the case here, but I’m not sure if it corrected the issue, as I didn’t see it before I updated to the latest save. If not, double the fun!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with the above, it never struck me to consider Catelyn’s honesty in regards to the message–that was  good call by Elena. As noted above, I do agree Matt, in this – and for me most of the occasions – I find Catelyn’s actions and convictions to be perfectly justifiable given the setting, if not optimal to our own ideas of “grace”. Hell, we know what Cersei does and it’s apparently public knowledge.</p>
<p>Man, I can’t find the duplicate paragraph. Usually if I do that, what’s happening is my latest save isn’t posting (having a ‘fresher’ autosave–which is annoying and has happened more than once). This was the case here, but I’m not sure if it corrected the issue, as I didn’t see it before I updated to the latest save. If not, double the fun!</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Oct 2010 23:22:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Call me a Starkophile, but I’ve always wanted to give them each the benefit of the doubt.  Yes, even Sansa…  Rickon kind of freaks me out, but I dig it…
 
Catelyn’s treatment of Jon, although completely devoid of grace, is justifiable when you take it in the context of a survivalist society.  Of course she sees him as a threat to her kids.  And I have to assume that Jon is the reminder of the one piece of Ned that she has no access to.  You don’t need to be a jealous/cruel person to feel that way… 
 
Great post, as always…]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Call me a Starkophile, but I’ve always wanted to give them each the benefit of the doubt.  Yes, even Sansa…  Rickon kind of freaks me out, but I dig it…</p>
<p>Catelyn’s treatment of Jon, although completely devoid of grace, is justifiable when you take it in the context of a survivalist society.  Of course she sees him as a threat to her kids.  And I have to assume that Jon is the reminder of the one piece of Ned that she has no access to.  You don’t need to be a jealous/cruel person to feel that way… </p>
<p>Great post, as always…</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Oct 2010 14:02:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I didn’t think Catelyn wanted to be honored as the mother of the queen, she just has ambitions for her children to rise high, that’s pretty normal for moms.  She wanted to go with Ned because she loves him, not because she cares about personal self aggrandizement.Catelyn’s issues here should be understood in the context of her society. Bastards would just never be raised in the house where the lady and her own children live, inheritance issues too big a deal in Westeros.

She comes to love Ned despite her grievance also because it’s her duty, and when women are sent so far away from their homes they become strangers in strange lands, so if they don’t have good relationships with their husband they will often have no one else for support or company. They’re just very dependent on their husbands’ good will.

I think Cat tries to love Ned and succeeds, and then tries to love Jon for his sake but fails there. Ned is the reason her anger has nowhere productive to go, because he forbids her to talk about it and she has to obey him. And Catelyn doesn’t usually take her anger out on Jon actively, she just avoids him.

I think Martin did a more interesting thing giving us both Cat and Jon as protagonists; Elena suggests it would be easier to be into Cat’s bitterness if we didn’t like Jon, but that’s taking the easy way out.I think Cat blazes angry at Ned because he is taking a dig at her for finding Robert’s offer an honor, which she doesn’t have a problem with. This is where their personalities are different, he shuns ambition wholesale while she is more normal about it — take it when it doesn’t cost anything, but avoid it when the cost is too great.

I don’t think she was insinuating anything about Elia’s children.And I think that because people like Ned, they don’t also realize perhaps that he isn’t a natural at his job, that Cat and Luwin have to prod him for a reason — otherwise he will miss opportunities.  He was not raised for lordship, but Cat was always raised for politics.

He misses his home, and so we miss it with him, but if you consider Catelyn’s life, a woman has to give up her home for basically ever and ever because politics demand it. She has a different perspective: while Ned mourns, she doesn’t even have the luxury to do that, so though she feels for him she can’t indulge him.I think it’s understandable that Cat can’t forget about Jon, he’s always there after all. If Ned sent him away and had him raised with bannermen, like most people do, it’d be easy to forget.

I find it more interesting that Ned is insecure about Brandon after all this time, even though nobody really gives him reason to be.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I didn’t think Catelyn wanted to be honored as the mother of the queen, she just has ambitions for her children to rise high, that’s pretty normal for moms.  She wanted to go with Ned because she loves him, not because she cares about personal self aggrandizement.Catelyn’s issues here should be understood in the context of her society. Bastards would just never be raised in the house where the lady and her own children live, inheritance issues too big a deal in Westeros.</p>
<p>She comes to love Ned despite her grievance also because it’s her duty, and when women are sent so far away from their homes they become strangers in strange lands, so if they don’t have good relationships with their husband they will often have no one else for support or company. They’re just very dependent on their husbands’ good will.</p>
<p>I think Cat tries to love Ned and succeeds, and then tries to love Jon for his sake but fails there. Ned is the reason her anger has nowhere productive to go, because he forbids her to talk about it and she has to obey him. And Catelyn doesn’t usually take her anger out on Jon actively, she just avoids him.</p>
<p>I think Martin did a more interesting thing giving us both Cat and Jon as protagonists; Elena suggests it would be easier to be into Cat’s bitterness if we didn’t like Jon, but that’s taking the easy way out.I think Cat blazes angry at Ned because he is taking a dig at her for finding Robert’s offer an honor, which she doesn’t have a problem with. This is where their personalities are different, he shuns ambition wholesale while she is more normal about it — take it when it doesn’t cost anything, but avoid it when the cost is too great.</p>
<p>I don’t think she was insinuating anything about Elia’s children.And I think that because people like Ned, they don’t also realize perhaps that he isn’t a natural at his job, that Cat and Luwin have to prod him for a reason — otherwise he will miss opportunities.  He was not raised for lordship, but Cat was always raised for politics.</p>
<p>He misses his home, and so we miss it with him, but if you consider Catelyn’s life, a woman has to give up her home for basically ever and ever because politics demand it. She has a different perspective: while Ned mourns, she doesn’t even have the luxury to do that, so though she feels for him she can’t indulge him.I think it’s understandable that Cat can’t forget about Jon, he’s always there after all. If Ned sent him away and had him raised with bannermen, like most people do, it’d be easy to forget.</p>
<p>I find it more interesting that Ned is insecure about Brandon after all this time, even though nobody really gives him reason to be.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Oct 2010 09:47:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You got a repeat paragraph in there Jay :-)Elena yet again has some great/different perspectives on things I hadn&#039;t really thought about before.She obviously is fresh to the story, but she&#039;s heard things about it already and it&#039;s interesting to see how that influences her reading.  *SPOILERS*I&#039;d never thought about Cat lying about what was in Lysa&#039;s message.  I only put it as a spoiler, because why should Elena know whether or not Cat was lying.  Let her keep her suspicions for awhile :-)  Although if she thinks Cat is lying, then maybe she won&#039;t think the Lannister&#039;s are that bad.  I&#039;m sure that will change in another couple of chapters though.I never questioned Ned and Cat&#039;s relationship.  There are obviously some issues between them, but I think GRRM makes it equally obvious that they had grown to truly love each other.  They both mention wanting to be with the other at some point during the book.*SPOILERS*]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You got a repeat paragraph in there Jay :-)Elena yet again has some great/different perspectives on things I hadn&#8217;t really thought about before.She obviously is fresh to the story, but she&#8217;s heard things about it already and it&#8217;s interesting to see how that influences her reading.  *SPOILERS*I&#8217;d never thought about Cat lying about what was in Lysa&#8217;s message.  I only put it as a spoiler, because why should Elena know whether or not Cat was lying.  Let her keep her suspicions for awhile 🙂  Although if she thinks Cat is lying, then maybe she won&#8217;t think the Lannister&#8217;s are that bad.  I&#8217;m sure that will change in another couple of chapters though.I never questioned Ned and Cat&#8217;s relationship.  There are obviously some issues between them, but I think GRRM makes it equally obvious that they had grown to truly love each other.  They both mention wanting to be with the other at some point during the book.*SPOILERS*</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Oct 2010 09:46:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wow, very interesting. I never realized how telling this chapter was. I&#039;m going to have to read more carefully next time I re-read the chapters.Personally, I have never hated Catelyn, even when she was nasty towards Jon. Maybe it&#039;s because I&#039;m not a huge fan of Jon to begin with. I just feel that he was somewhat manufactured to be the hero, the one everyone roots for from the beginning and I didn&#039;t like that.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, very interesting. I never realized how telling this chapter was. I&#8217;m going to have to read more carefully next time I re-read the chapters.Personally, I have never hated Catelyn, even when she was nasty towards Jon. Maybe it&#8217;s because I&#8217;m not a huge fan of Jon to begin with. I just feel that he was somewhat manufactured to be the hero, the one everyone roots for from the beginning and I didn&#8217;t like that.</p>
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